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Friday, December 27, 2013

Officials stress toy safety:

By TIFFANY REPECKI - Cape Coral Daily Breeze
      
As local children begin breaking in their new bicycles, scooters and skateboards from Christmas, the Cape Coral Fire Department reminds drivers and parents about one important element - safety.

With a spike in bicycle-versus-vehicle crashes in the Cape in 2013, motorists are urged to pay special attention to children out on their new toys, while parents should go over safety with the youth.

"The biggest concern that we see regarding bicycle safety is the fact that we have year-round weather," Michael Heeder, spokesman for the fire department, said. "Conditions that allow children to get out and ride their bikes all the time."

"We want to remind drivers, especially, that you always have to be cognizant of pedestrians and bicyclists," he said.

Many of this year's accidents involved bicyclists veering into the road or not crossing at a proper spot, like a crosswalk. They should use crosswalks and be aware that they are sharing the road with vehicles.

"A lot of smaller children are not going to be aware of approaching vehicles," Heeder noted.

Fact Box

Know Bicycle hand signals

Bicyclists have special hand signals to tell motorists or other riders what they are about to do, just like vehicles have turn signal lights and brake lights.

* An extended left arm means the rider is turning left.

* A raised left hand means a right turn.

* An extended left arm with the forearm pointing downward means they are about to stop.

Source: Cape Coral Fire Department

Motorists who find themselves sharing the road with a bicyclist should slow down and swing wide, allowing for at least 3 feet or 4 feet of clearance. Avoid honking at a cyclist, and always yield to them.

Drivers should check over their shoulder before moving back into a lane to ensure there is space.

As for parents, adults should know the rules of the road and children should be reminded.

Heeder explained that wearing a helmet is the No. 1 safety rule.

"If everyone would take the time to wear a helmet, that would reduce the severity of head trauma in a multitude of ways," he said.

More than 300,000 children reportedly go to the emergency room for bicycle-related injuries each year nationwide.

The helmet must fit correctly, not too snug nor too loose. The straps also must fit snugly not tightly - just enough to keep the helmet securely in place, according to Heeder.

"The same rules apply for scooters as they do for bicycles," he said, adding that skateboarders are viewed as pedestrians. "Make sure they're wearing the proper protective equipment."

Florida law states that a bicyclist who is under 16 years of age must wear a bicycle helmet that is properly fitted, is fastened securely upon their head by a strap and meets the federal safety standard for helmets. Violators can be issued a warning, or even assessed a $15 fine for a pedestrian violation.

Heeder also suggested using the proper reflectors and lighting on bicycles.

"Make sure that you're very visible to others around you and you can see in front of you," he said.

Parents should regularly do a safety check on their child's bicycle.

"Bicycles are just like any other vehicle. They need to be maintained and inspected," Heeder said.

Check the bike every few weeks for height and adjust if necessary. Feet need to be flat on the ground when standing and straddling the top bar of the bicycle. There should be 1 inch to 3 inches of space between the child's body and the top bar of the bike.

"For children, you need to make sure the bike is at the right height," he said.

Check the oil and chain, as well as the tires and brakes, to see that they are working correctly.

Parents should direct children to keep their gaze ahead to anticipate any obstacles or road hazards coming their way. Be careful with driveways and vehicles coming out of garages. Children should be taught to ride on the right side of the street and walk their bikes when crossing busy intersections.

"Use crosswalks and follow traffic signals, like any other vehicle," Heeder said.

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Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Child Safety Resources:




Trinity Mount Family Blog







Child Abuse Resources:


National Child Abuse Hotline http://www.childhelp.org/ 1-800-4-A-CHILD




National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC)  http://www.ncmec.org  National clearinghouse for information on missing children and prevention of child victimization. Website offers wealth of child protection information. Offers toll-free phone and web response to report sexual exploitation, abuse, or abduction of children.



Report Child Pornography
CyberTipline is toll-free line to report information about sexual exploitation of children on the web or other child pornography. 1-800-LOST to report sexually exploited, abused, or missing children.  http://www.cybertipline.com

mosac
Mothers of Sexually Abused Children (MOSAC) http://www.mosac.net  The MOSAC site is designed specifically for mothers who have experienced the sexual abuse of one of their children. Life is difficult for mothers following the disclosure of a child’s abuse, and they often have few, if any, resources available to them. This site is designed to be a comprehensive source of information about sexual abuse and to offer support and resources.




Jeffery Herman, Esq.  http://www.HermanLaw.com   Jeffrey M. Herman is a nationally-recognized trial lawyer and advocate for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. He devotes 100% of his practice to representing survivors of sexual abuse, and has had the honor of advocating for hundreds of these brave men, women and children. He is the founding partner of Herman, Mermelstein & Horowitz, P.A., a national, Miami-based law firm with decades of combined experience representing people seeking justice and healing from the wounds of abuse.




The National Children’s Advocacy Center (NCAC)  http://www.nationalcac.org   Non-profit agency providing prevention, intervention, and treatment services to abused children and their families. Was the nation’s first Children’s Advocacy Center.




Prevent Child Abuse America (PCAA) http://www.preventchildabuse.org    National volunteer-based organization committed to preventing child abuse through research, education, and advocacy. Resource for comprehensive information and referrals in child abuse prevention. Offers catalog of publications.




Dreamcatchers For Abused Children


DREAMCATCHERS for Abused Children http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/  a 501(c) nonprofit dedicated to preventing child abuse through education and awareness campaigns.  DREAMCATCHERS  for Abused Children published Books: http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/child-abuse-books/dreamcatchers-books/ 




http://www.Child-Safety-For-Parents.com This site is dedicated to helping parents protect their kids from child molesters and pedophiles, and understand the growing problem of missing kids. Find statistics, facts, tips and advice from experts and parents alike.




http://birdsandbeesandkids.com  At birds and bees and kids, parents and other adults will learn how to talk to the kids in their care about sexuality, love, and relationships. Amy Lang MA




Bullying Resources:

Positive Pocket http://www.PositivePocket.org This website was started by a student that went through KidSafe’s 8 week program and wanted to share with the world how KidSafe helped her find her voice.

www.nationalcenterforbullyingprevention – Unites and engages, and educates communities nationwide to address bullying

www.stopbullyingnow.org – FREE! Bullying information, resources and prevention tips for the US Department of Health and Human Services




Internet Safety Resources:

www.getnetwise.org– largest online repository of instructional how to video tutorials

www.mousemail.com – Cell phone program allows parents to program cell phone for specific hours or access.

www.safetyweb.com – Offers free e-mail check for social networking and other sites

www.webwisekids.org – Offers internet safety games and additional resources for parents and children

www.wiredsafety.org – Offers internet safety information, assistance and resources for parents and children

www.netsmartz.org – The Center for Missing and Exploited children, internet safety resources and workshops



 



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Monday, March 11, 2013

Polly Klaas Foundation Video:





The Polly Klaas® Foundation is Dedicated to the Safety of All Children
The Polly Klaas® Foundation is a national nonprofit dedicated to the safety of all children, the recovery of missing children, and public policies that keep children safe in their communities.
We have helped more than 7,691 families of missing children, counseling them on ways to find their children and work with law enforcement. We make and distribute posters of missing children for these families, and have a national eVolunteer force that distributes posters of missing children in their communities. Our hotline has been answered 24/7 since 1993.
We publish and distribute child safety information to people around the world. Our free Child Safety Kit and Internet Safety Kit can be ordered or downloaded online.

Awarded by the US Department of Justice, Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention

Polly Klaas Foundation

Sunday, March 10, 2013

101 Websites That Every Elementary Teacher Should Know About:

As class sizes keep growing, it becomes harder and harder to find the time to look for new elementary teaching materials, while still giving your kids the personalized attention they need (and deserve!).

After all, you can only be pulled in so many directions at once, right?

With that in mind, I put together this list of websites for elementary teachers, hoping that you’ll finally be able add something fresh and fun to your lesson plan.

Now, you don’t have to skim the results of hundreds of Google searches to find a handful of useable internet resources—I’ve already got 101 of ‘em!

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1. GoEd Online Elementary
GoEd Online is more than just a blog—it’s a one-stop shop for teaching materials! There are over 3,000 downloadable eBooks and games for elementary teachers, including resources for early childhood, English (ELA), math, science and social studies.

Click here to check out our elementary materials.

2. FunBrain
FunBrain has over 100 fun, interactive games that develop skills in math, reading and literacy. Plus, kids can read a variety of popular books and comics on the site, including Diary of a Wimpy Kid, Amelia Writes Again, and Brewster Rocket.

3. e-Learning for Kids
At e-Learning for Kids, you can search through educational games by grade level or subject. There are materials for grades 1-6 in math, science and language arts.

4. Turtle Diary
Over 1,000 educational activities, games, animated lessons, printable worksheets, interactive storybooks and more.

5. FueltheBrain
Have your elementary students practice their math, science and language arts skills with games and interactive activities from FueltheBrain!

6. Free Rice
This website allows your students to review English vocabulary and grammar at varying levels of difficulty. For each correct answer, the website will donate one grain of rice. Have your students play Free Rice when they finish early and keep track of how much rice your students have contributed to combat hunger.

7. Mr. Nussbaum
Mr. Nussbaum is a website with tons of interactive games and activities for math, language arts, history, geography, science and more.

8. SmartyGames
Free games for learning how to use money, tell time, count and read. Also, you’ll find mazes, memory games, puzzles, Sudoku and more!

9. Ask Kids
The Ask Jeeves search engine for kids.

10. KidsClick!
KidsClick! is a web search site designed for kids by librarians -- with kid-friendly results!

11.Librarians’ Internet Databse
Find websites you and your students can trust in this directory that has been compiled by librarians.

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12. YouTube
With millions of YouTube videos, there’s bound to be something that’s relatable to your lesson. There are step-by-step tutorials, news clips, editorials, short documentaries and more. Recently, YouTube launched an education-specific version of the website called YouTube for Teachers.

13. TeacherTube
TeacherTube is exactly what it sounds like—YouTube for teachers (not to be confused with the Youtube-specific version above!). The design of the website is getting a little outdated (it’s reminiscent of past versions of YouTube), but there are many educational videos to choose from.

14. Appolicious
The education section of Appolicious is a listing of thousands of educational applications with descriptions and reviews. It’s a great place to go if you’re looking for something new, or just to check something out before you buy it.

15. IMDb
Use IMDb, the internet movie database, to see if there are any movies that are relevant to the topic you’re teaching. If you find one, you can also check the rating to make sure it’s appropriate for your classroom, and read reviews to see what others have thought (and to see if it's historically or scientifically accurate!).

16. Pinterest
A colleague and fellow GoEd Online blogger (can you guess who?) got me hooked on using Pinterest! There’s no end to the great elementary teaching resources you can find on there. Educators from all over the world have created boards that are PACKED full of great stuff.

If you want to check out what we’ve found on Pinterest, follow us.

17. Learnist
This social network is kind of like Pinterest for people who want to learn about different things. Users create and share collections of knowledge. It is still in its beta phase and requires an invite to get full access, but it’s very cool already! The “education” topic is full of great posts about using tech in the classroom, industry trends and shared resources.

Read More: http://www.goedonline.com/101-websites-for-elementary-teachers

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Putting our children’s safety first:

Global Times

By Zhou Ping

Illustration: Chen Xia/GT 

A local radio station reported that one of the city's thousands of nannies, or ayi, called its hotline last week to confide her employment woes. The woman said that the family she works for has set up a camera in her bedroom in order to see how she takes care of their 17-month-old baby.
The father of the family works largely in the US, while the baby's mother is also out at work all day. And the camera has been specially set up so that the wife can track the ayi's movements on her mobile phone.
Although the ayi, surnamed Wu, initially knew that there were cameras in most rooms in the house, she said it was only after she took up the post that they then put one in her live-in bedroom, against her wishes.
On one occasion she manually turned off the camera, only to be sent a text message by her employer ordering her to switch it back on.

Wu naturally felt uncomfortable because she effectively had no privacy.
The family are definitely in the wrong for going back on their word not to install a camera in the ayi's room. Every employee, no matter what their job, has the right to privacy and the preservation of their dignity.
However, as a mother myself, I totally understand the parents' behavior and I think it's a good idea to set up such cameras in the home.
Sadly, there have been many news reports about nannies abusing children in their care. In a case reported last year, one mother in Wenzhou, Zhejiang Province set up a camera without informing the nanny to try to find out why her son was so frightened of the woman. The mother was horrified to see that the ayi was slapping the child several times a day.
In another case, a nanny beat a crying baby so hard that the child lost consciousness.
Reading these stories it is unsurprising that families are keen to install cameras.
What I do think is that families need to be totally honest with nannies about cameras being used in the home.
In China today, it is not uncommon for both the husband and wife to work full time. In the past, new moms and dads could ask their own parents or even friends to take care of their child, but this is no longer an option for many people. First time grandparents, many of whom might still only be in their 50s, are also working themselves.
Added to this, many young couples are now working away from their hometown, and therefore away from their parents.
As an added precaution for the hiring of child carers, I think it's necessary for both nanny agencies and parents to check a nanny's working background carefully before hiring her.
This can be as simple as making phone calls to the woman's former employers. Nanny agencies should also take on responsibility for the thorough vetting and training of every person who they sign up. When these procedures are routine, we will hopefully stop reading the kind of aforementioned stories of abuse.



Saturday, December 15, 2012

Talk with kids about Conn. shooting, make them feel safe:







Talk with kids about Conn. shooting, make them feel safe, limit exposure to media, experts say

How to talk to your kids about Conn. mass shooting















School children wait for their parents at the Sandy Hook firehouse following a mass shooting at the Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn. on Friday, Dec. 14, 2012. (AP Photo/The Journal News,...   (Associated Press)

President Barack Obama said he and his wife, Michelle, would tell their daughters that they love them and hug them a little tighter. Experts say that's a good example to follow. Parents also should allow children to talk about their feelings in the coming days while sheltering them from the 24/7 media coverage of the event, they say.
A man gunned down more than two dozen people Friday, most of them kids at a Newtown, Conn., elementary school. The shooter was among the 28 people left dead, apparently from a self-inflicted wound.
Whitney Finucane wasn't sure how and when she would talk with her son, Nico, about the shooting. She kissed and hugged him when he came out from kindergarten at Dr. Martin Luther King Elementary in Providence, R.I., on Friday.
"I don't know how to explain insanity and evil to a 5-year-old," she said. "I don't know that he can really grasp it."
Even the youngest schoolchildren are likely to hear about it, said Glenn Saxe, chairman of the Department of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at NYU Langone Medical Center.
"It's really important, especially at this time, for parents to check in with their kids, to be attuned to how they're feeling, how they're doing, and to answer questions honestly and straightforwardly," he said. "For any other kid in school, this has meaning. Parents need to understand that even in surprising ways, this can affect their kids."
Parents can start by asking their children what they've already heard and what questions they have, said Dr. David Schonfeld, a pediatrician and director of the National Center for School Crisis and Bereavement at Cincinnati Children's Hospital Medical Center. If they ask why someone would do something like this, it's OK to say you don't know.
"I wouldn't provide false reassurance or dismiss legitimate concerns," he said. "We don't help children by telling them they shouldn't be afraid of things that are frightening."
Parents can tell their kids, "What is most important is that you're safe and you're going to be safe," said Dr. Louis Kraus, chief of child and adolescent psychiatry at Rush University Medical Center in Chicago.
Above all, parents need to try to help their children feel safe, he said. Helping kids return to or maintain normal routines can help minimize their anxiety, Kraus said.
Some children may ask the same questions over and over as a way to seek reassurance, and parents shouldn't dismiss them, said Dr. David Fassler, a child and adolescent psychiatrist in Burlington, Vt.
"Acknowledge and validate the child's thoughts, feelings, and reactions. Let them know that you think their questions and concerns are important and appropriate," he said.
Parents of young children should keep their children from hearing reports on TV, radio, and social media and to closely monitor exposure to media for all children, several experts said. Children who show persistent signs of anxiety and stress, including recurring nightmares or sleep problems and fears about leaving home, should see their pediatrician or a mental health expert, Kraus said.
While parents might feel the need to teach their children what do in such an emergency, the next few days is not the time to develop or bring up your family's disaster preparedness or to teach your young children to dial 911, Saxe said.
"Right now, kids' sense of safety and security is shattered," Saxe said. "It's very good parenting practice, in general, to have a kid know what to do in times of emergency, but it undermines the immediate message that you're trying to convey."
Schonfeld said if children bring it up themselves, you can talk about what's being done to keep them safe.
As students head back to their classrooms on Monday, parents and children should know that school shootings are rare and schools still are among the safest places, said William Lassiter of the Center for the Prevention of School Violence. Parents can ask their principal or parent-teacher group for a copy of their school crisis plan.
Notice whether schools stick to their own security plans, he said. Do people have to check in at the door and sign in at the front office, for example?
"A lot of times, the parents are the ones who need to remind the school," he said.
Schools should have an emergency plan that is available to parents that explains what the school will do in various emergencies, such as a fire, hazardous materials spill, lockdown or evacuation. It should also say how the school will communicate with the parents: for example on its Twitter feed, Facebook page, website, or by email or automated phone call, said Kitty Porterfield, a spokeswoman for the American Association of School Administrators.
From the moment a child starts school, they are learning safety procedures such as lining up and following the teacher, she said. School districts in most major metropolitan areas also hold drills in which teachers and administrators practice what to do in a shooting or similar emergency. Most don't involve children so that they aren't upset, but some do, she said.
It's natural for parents at a time like this to want to react to Friday's shooting with action, Schonfeld said, but giving a young child a cellphone or keeping them out of school probably will not help.
"I know we really want to do everything we can to keep our kids safe," he said. "You could put GPS tracking on them, bullet-proof vests. There's a limit to what you can do."
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Smith reported from Providence, R.I. Associated Press writers Erika Niedowski in Providence and Lindsey Tanner in Chicago contributed to this report.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

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